I don’t think I’ve ever had a sexual involvement without love. I’ve never had a one-night stand.
Plato on Desire
I feel as if I had escaped from a frantic and savage master. Unquestionably old age brings us profound repose and freedom from this and other passions.
~ Plato
Jarvis Cocker on Excess
There is a famous quote from his drinking, druggy days that sounds embarrassingly self-congratulatory. I recite it back to him. “I had access to the most quality fanny available.” Ah, he says, that’s taken out of context. “It is a bit embarrassing, I suppose, but it wasn’t meant in a show-off way. It was more that they’re the rock’n’roll cliches; they’re the things that are supposed to bring you happiness, aren’t they? You make it, and you’re bathing in champagne and you can snort as much cocaine as you want and fuck as many beautiful women as you want. Then you find you can do those things, but they don’t actually make you very happy.”
How long did it take him to realise? “About six months.”
~ Jarvis Cocker / The Guardian, 24th November, 2008
https://www.theguardian.com/music/2008/nov/24/jarvis-cocker-pulp-pop-music